I was going through my standard mammogram (every two years) back in May 2023, when my doctor detected something suspicious. I was sent to do an ultrasound and a biopsy was performed. During the ultrasound, there was nipple discharge when it was under pressure. Otherwise, I did not experience any symptoms.

The 5-year survival rate my doctor informed me of was a hopeful 98%.

After the diagnosis, I didn't make any immediate lifestyle changes.

From the treatment options recommended to me, I opted for mastectomy and chemotherapy. I was happy enough to have a plan in place. However, I had to change my treatment plan when I was hospitalized due to C. diff (a Clostridium difficile infection), and accepted my doctor’s hormone therapy recommendations. I finally felt relieved after the change of plan. My cancer is in remission but I continue taking hormone therapy.

The side effects I had, fatigue, hair loss, and loss of appetite, were manageable. I didn't do anything specific to address them.

During the treatment, I took time off work. I make sure that I have a weekly hangout with my kids during the journey.

My wish is simple: get back to work, do some travelling and watch my children flourish.

Throughout this journey, my biggest fear has been the loss of independence. Even so, I still live alone and enjoy my independence.

Now, I feel optimistic and thankful for each day.

It's not the worst thing that can happen. For some it is but for many, not. In most cases, there are a huge range of options for treatment. Let yourself cry for a while, it takes time to adjust. Then you do the best you can and keep moving every day, do a little more. I wrote a diary for a few months. Be proud of yourself for taking on this adversary. It's not welcome and it is scary but do it anyway. Be mindful that every single person has a unique experience, don't compare, you are unique.