It all started with rising PSA levels detected during a test. Because I could not schedule an appointment with a doctor, it was only a few months later that I was diagnosed with stage 1 prostate adenocarcinoma.

What I felt at first was anger, fear and sadness. I was just so surprised at this age to be dealing with cancer.

Based on my own research and my doctor’s recommendation, I opted for a radical prostatectomy (removal of the entire prostate). I had two prostate biopsies over the course of 6 months and then RALP scheduled 2 months later, so I am about to have my first surgery. I’m feeling optimistic about it. I have a bias for action and am happy to finally be moving forward. In terms of financing treatment, I am covered by insurance.

I haven't made any formal plans, but I plan to keep working, exercising and doing the best I can.

I continued working because I needed the income to support myself and my loved ones.

Since my diagnosis, I’ve struggled with my day-to-day and professional life, but challenges in my social life and relationships with loved ones affect me the most. I'm not through it; still working on it day to day by researching, talking and working on myself. I wish I would have known how much a toll it would take on my anxiety and stress levels.

Finding out I had cancer, what scared me the most is the:

• Fear of the cancer returning (recurrence)
• Fear of not being able to continue with normal life or activities
• Fear of the impact on family or relationships

To try and overcome these fears, I’ve been:

• Seeking support from family or friends
• Focusing on physical recovery and staying active
• Educating myself about the cancer and treatment process
• Joining a support group or connecting with other cancer survivors

Now I feel sad, but optimistic at the same time. I have learned a lot about the disease and have an action plan to treat it which helps immensely.

Know you are not alone. Also know that you can talk to three doctors and they will all have very different views of the situation. Unless your prognosis is an emergency, take the time to understand and find the best care you can.

Find a support group to talk to that has experience in your area, but don't find just one. Use the Internet and scholarly articles to your advantage to advocate for yourself on your journey.