It was through a PSA test that I found out I had prostate cancer.

Because I was being monitored, I felt rather optimistic at first.

After taking multiple opinions on different options into account, I opted for radiation therapy and hormone therapy. I was hopeful of a cure but at the same time fearful of the side effects. In terms of treatment costs, I am covered by insurance.

I was on Leuprolide (Lupron) for 28 days, followed by radiation. I had the second dose of Lupron at some point.

The most severe side effect I had was fatigue. Because of that, I was tired all the time. I also struggled with loss of libido, ED and weight changes. To manage these side effects, I exercise more frequently, but they are still hard to overcome.

After treatment, I got fatter, heavier and suffered from more ED. I was tired all the time. For now, I plan to lose weight, beat ED and find engagements after retirement.

The friendly and helpful medical staff – that’s what stood out to me.

Because I was still able and willing, I kept working in IT sales even after my cancer diagnosis. But I’ve since retired.

Since being diagnosed with prostate cancer, I’ve had challenges in my day-to-day life and social life and relationships with loved ones. But I have to say that struggles with my self-esteem/self-image have affected me the most, and I’m still dealing with the ED problem.

Even though my treatment has so far been successful I feel less like myself. That’s what I find most challenging about surviving cancer.

I was most scared of the side effects from treatment, but I’m trying to overcome this fear.

Suffering from the side effects of treatment makes me sad. In fact, I wish I’d known before treatment that there’d be more side effects than expected. Don’t think you’re exempt from side effects – that’s my practical advice to others with cancer.

It’s a tough row but think of coming out healthy and cancer free! Don’t despair. Keep on plugging.